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Expat wanderer

Waiting for Snow

Lest you think I sit around between trips finding things to rant about, I will share my Saturday with you.

I am religious. I am a believer. LOL, here is where Catholics and Muslims have something in common – when I say “I am a believer” my Catholic friends think I am Catholic, and my Muslim friends think I am Muslim. Sooner or later we get it all figured out. I believe in a Great Creator, without whom nothing was created, and who is magnificent beyone our ability to understand. I believe he cares about us on an individual basis, and that he wants only good for all of us, whether we agree or not. I do not understand why he gave us all free will, and I know it would be a terrible world without it. I believe God is infinitely merciful.

So in the midst of some of the political horrors of January, I texted a friend and said “I need a meet-up.” We met up this morning at a local cafe and hashed out our lives, just normal stuff, families, husbands, children, and what we CAN do to make a difference. I have a friend from high school, and a friend from college, and friends from almost every post where we lived. We don’t always see one another, but when we need a good connection, we get on the phone – yeh, old school – and it’s like we’ve never been apart. When I need to re-balance, when my emotions are unmanageable, my friends help me recenter. Thanks be to God. At the cafe, I also saw another old friend, of a different political persuasion, and we were delighted to see one another, reminding me that our current differences are temporary, and mendable.

I arrived back home to the aroma of garlic and peppers sautéing; AdventureMan is making beans! We have been informed it MIGHT snow tonight, it is hovering just above and below freezing and a big pot of beans is a perfect hot weather meal.

Birds on the Bayou are chowing down, the fish must be running. We have pelicans plunging, an eagle chasing off a hawk, a cormorant and a heron.

Last year, almost this same time of year, we got several inches of snow. In previous years, I have seen a flake of snow here and there, but last year was a special confluence of factors – humidity, cold, polar vortex and a series of cold dry days in which the snow first fell, and then stuck around. It was like wiping away all the bad, a clean, clear new earth, few cars driving, lots of walking and lots of playing. Maybe we all need to play a little more. Pensacolians love a good snow, and it doesn’t stick around long enough to get old.

Our house is warm, we have a big pot of beans cooking, we have friends, I’ve recovered all my lost-for-a-very-short-time passwords and life is sweet. May you be equally blessed; may all your problems be little ones.

January 17, 2026 - Posted by | Beauty, Birds, Civility, Climate Change, Community, Cultural, Food, Friends & Friendship, Living Conditions, Pensacola, Random Musings, Weather | , , , , , ,

6 Comments »

  1. I’m so glad to see your occasional updates. We’re preparing to move to Germany this summer (surprise! We’re stoked although a bit overwhelmed by the long list of things that have to happen first) and busy, but I do love reading about your travels and thoughts when you pop up into my feed again. We had snow but no accumulation where I am, I imagine it was probably similar for you too today.

    Have a wonderful rest of your day!
    Emma

    emmafreester's avatar Comment by emmafreester | January 18, 2026 | Reply

    • Emma, e-mail me! I am so excited for you and your family! I lived in four different areas – I know the one I hope you are going to 😊. We will be going back for a very short visit in December; who knows maybe we will find ourselves near you!

      intlxpatr's avatar Comment by intlxpatr | January 19, 2026 | Reply

  2. hello:

    it’s been a while. I wanted to inform you that my book is getting published and soon and wanted you to know that you shall be acknowledged in it as the Pensacola Observer- it was you who first saw a book growing in me.

    Of course, it is not some big ticket publishing house and mine will be a self published venture. I will keep you informed once it hits Amazon and Barnes & Nobles.

    Warm regards

    The Beautiful Liar

    Abou Tabbouleh on insta's avatar Comment by Abou Tabbouleh on insta | January 23, 2026 | Reply

    • First, my old friend, I am delighted to see you. Second, I am honored you remember me and I am eager to see your book. I have wondered so often how you were doing and if you have found your comfort zone, and happiness. 😊

      intlxpatr's avatar Comment by intlxpatr | January 23, 2026 | Reply

  3. No wait. You already have a tabloid called Pensacola Observer. Will acknowledge you as

    Pensacola Mamma.

    Abou Tabblouleh on the Gram's avatar Comment by Abou Tabblouleh on the Gram | January 23, 2026 | Reply

    • You could just call me Intlxpatr 😊. Still blogging after all these years . . .

      intlxpatr's avatar Comment by intlxpatr | January 23, 2026 | Reply


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