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This is the Day We’ve Got

April has been full of the unexpected.

I have a scientist friend who attributes his success to being prepared to seize opportunities. April has been a month of unexpected opportunities.

I’m a planner and I have an idea how things should go. My plans are mostly shot down this month as I take advantage of other opportunities. I confess, it jangles me a littles, rattles my world. I have ideas for what I want to accomplish, and I end up accomplishing something else. As my friend says, I am prepared, my life is flexible enough to accomodate changes. My mind, however, needs to stop and take a deep breath. I need to tell myself “SWITCH!” to shake myself out of my mind-set.

March was a month of switched-up scheduling, as we had appointments scheduled daily around our normal lunch time, and ended up eating lunch much later than usual, which impacted our dinner, which we tend to eat earlier. It is a relief to be back on our preferred schedule.

I had a list for our favorite handymen; he always comes and takes a look to see what he will need and schedules a day when he can come and get it all done. Last week, he arrived, saw what needed to be done and spent the day fixing our weatherstripping, caulking and putting up a discreet outdoor drying line so I can dry my sheets and blankets in the open air. I hadn’t expected him to be there the whole day, but it worked.

There was a fan he couldn’t fix and advised me to call the electrician; fortunately I had some other things I also needed the electrician to do so I called and left a message – almost a week ago. This morning I got a call and even as I write, the electricians are installing some new lights and fixing the fan with new switches. It wasn’t the day I had planned, but it is the day we got, and I thank God for it.

I think of my friend and his philosophy about being prepared to take advantage of opportunities. I might have plans, but my plans were flexible enough that I could stay home and accommodate having workmen in on the day they were available. We keep a reserve of funds available for maintenance and for emergencies, so I am able to pay the workmen for their labor.

Underlying my satisfaction about getting these small jobs done lies some apprehension. My handyman friend is so successful that he is hard to book – I was surprised he was able to work the jobs on the same day. The electricians had two big jobs postpone while people decide when to schedule, so they were able to help me today. I don’t want to take too much away from these two experiences. It does makes me wonder if the economy is slowing and people are hesitant to commit to repairs.

April 8, 2026 Posted by | Customer Service, Economic Issues, Family Issues, Florida, Home Improvements, Living Conditions, Money Management, Quality of Life Issues, Technical Issue, Work Related Issues | | Leave a comment

My Problem With ICE

I have a long history with Immigration and Customs Enforcement. I’ve been in and out of the USA since I was a little girl. We have filled out countless forms for passports, and many times more those forms telling what we are bringing back into the country. The only time I ever had a problem with ICE was on returning from one of our African trips when I was bringing in wildebeest jerky from South Africa. I laugh now, it was me and a lot of African nationals shunted off. They were opening suitcases full of vegetables they were bringing back for family, and I was told my package of jerky was illegal in the United States. AdventureMan was annoyed with me, and I was ashamed I didn’t know. But they let me off with a mild scolding about infecting disease free animal life in the USA. I’ve never forgotten.

I’ve never minded the tiresome lines for immigration, always manned by sturdy, polite young people wanting to know where we’ve been and how did we like our trip; they were doing their job and they had been trained how to deal with people. In all my times going through those lines, I never saw any kind of incident.

They had a mission.

With the new administration, that mission changed, enlarged. They were given different, even SECRET orders, orders that encouraged them to commit the sorts of acts we saw in Minnesota. It always looked to me like those acts, committed on US Citizens, committed on resident citizens, smacked of incitement to violence. Why else would these customs and immigration officers be asked to violate the US Constitution in pursuing their mission?

I applaud those stoic and humor-filled Minnesotans who protested with restraint, who did not invite violent responses. Even if the Department of Justice will not cooperate in the investigations you are conducting into the murders of Minneapolis citizens, you are gathering witness from street cameras and witnesses against the illegal actions, and the lies and accusations, unjust, of the ICE officials and the Department of Justice. I applaud the restraint that forestalled any illusion of reason for a “national emergency” and activation of a military presence. The militaristic costumes of the immigration and customs officials did not fool nor intimadate you. Your patient, evidence based investigations will be embarrassment enough to those who thought to prevail by intimidation and brutality.

So we have to look at why the ICE men and women sent by our leader to Democratic states felt so empowered to misbehave?

Many ICE hirees have law enforcement backgrounds. Many of them have served in the armed forces. They know the basics. They know the law. They must have had second thoughts, many of them, while conducting these unrestrained acts of violence characterized as arrests of “rapists, thieves and the mentally ill,” as they arrested family men, women – and children, with no criminal records.

As well as knowing the law, and the legal use of power, those who are Christian would know Christ’s admonition to love our neighbor as ourself. Those who are Jewish would know the Old Testament verses about welcoming the stranger. Those who were raised without religion might be familiar with Spiderman, who teaches us that with great power comes great responsibility.

These $50K hires are as expendable as Pam Bondi and Kristi Noem. Once they have served their purpose, they can be scapegoated for excessive zeal in pursuit of the mission, or charged with murder while their superiors, who put the secret policies into effect, escape blame and punishment.

Again, I applaud the Minnesotans, who with restraint, humor, and humanity, protected the weakest, the families and children, while EFFECTIVELY resisting the provocation they faced. Well done, Minnesota!

And lets take a minute to grieve the effects of the violence upon those who inflicted it, mere pawns in a greater game of thrones.

April 7, 2026 Posted by | Character, Charity, Civility, Community, corruption, Counter-terrorism, Cultural, Events, Family Issues, Free Speech, Interconnected, Law and Order, Leadership, Political Issues, Privacy, Quality of Life Issues, Relationships, Social Issues, South Africa, Travel | , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Welcome Easter in Pensacola!

If you live in Pensacola, you feel truly blessed when it rains as early gardens are planted, and dry weather means a drought in Florida. We have had beautiful sunny weather, good for planting seeds and sprouting them, and we need the rain to ensure their survival and vigorous growth. Thanks be to God for a glorious rain.

We had a strong crowd for the early service this morning; the flowers were stunning. I totally missed that the alter flowers were a metaphor for sunrise until our priest pointed it out.

This was the quiet service, the sanity service. Our family will be serving at the next service, the children’s service, after which there will be an Easter Egg hunt. There will be a brass band and celebratory trumpets at the two later services, making a joyful noise indeed! We will all meet up for brunch later. A festive and joyful day, The Lord is Risen Indeed, Alleluia!

April 5, 2026 Posted by | Arts & Handicrafts, Beauty, Community, Easter, Faith, Family Issues, Florida, Pensacola, Public Art, Spiritual, Weather | Leave a comment

Oscar Romero, Patron Saint of The Americas and El Salvador

My friends, when you hear that the immigrants seeking a new life in our country are rapists, thieves, the mentally ill and very bad people, please think of Oscar Romero, and all those who have fought the evil forces of thuggery and dictatorship to find a life of freedom for themselves, and for their families, especially, hope for their children.

I urge you to read a much criticized book, American Dirt, by Jeanine Cummins. Here is what Wikipedia says. My experience was that the struggles exposed in American Dirt are very typical of people seeking to escape the violence of their societies.

American Dirt is a 2020 novel by American author Jeanine Cummins, published by Flatiron Books. The book is about a Mexican bookseller who is forced to flee as an undocumented immigrant to the United States, along with her son, after her journalist husband exposes a local drug kingpin.

ÓSCAR ROMERO

ARCHBISHOP OF SAN SALVADOR, AND THE MARTYRS OF EL SALVADOR 

(24 March 1980)

Óscar Arnulfo Romero y Galdámez (August 15, 1917 – March 24, 1980), commonly known as Monseñor Romero, was a priest of the Roman Catholic Church in El Salvador. He later became prelate archbishop of San Salvador.

As an archbishop, he witnessed numerous violations of human rights and began a ministry speaking out on behalf of the poor and victims of the country’s civil war. His brand of political activism was denounced by the hierarchy of the Roman Catholic Church and the government of El Salvador. In 1980, he was assassinated by gunshot while consecrating the Eucharist during mass. His death finally provoked international outcry for human rights reform in El Salvador.

In 1997, a cause for beatification and canonization into sainthood was opened for Romero and Pope John Paul II bestowed upon him the title of Servant of God. Pope Francis canonized Romero as a saint on 14 October 2018. He is considered the unofficial patron saint of the Americas and El Salvador and is often referred to as “San Romero” in El Salvador. Outside of Catholicism Romero is honored by other religious denominations of Christendom, like the Church of England through its Common Worship. He is one of the ten 20th-century martyrs from across the world who are depicted in statues above the Great West Door of Westminster Abbey, London.

from Wikipedia

Also commemorated on this day are three Maryknoll nuns and a woman lay missionary killed by a Salvadoran army death squad on 2 Dec, 1980, and additionally six Jesuits, their housekeeper and her daughter, who were also murdered by the Salvadoran army on 16 Nov. 1989.

March 24, 2026 Posted by | Biography, Books, corruption, Cross Cultural, Faith, Family Issues, Interconnected, Lectionary Readings, Living Conditions, Political Issues, Quality of Life Issues | Leave a comment

Sherrifs and Police Chiefs Oppose DeSantis’ Hard Line on Immigration

The Pensacola News Journal reports that a group of Florida Sherrifs and Police Chiefs have gone public in opposition to the hard line Trump and DeSantis have imposed on mass deportation. When more than 90% have no criminal record, other than minor traffic violations or trumped-up charges related to immigration status (often untrue charges) many are being deported who are not only good citizens, but residents who are greatly needed in Florida, people who work hard, support their families and are essential to the Florida economy.

I believe the Law and Order guys know their topic. Who would know better what kind of citizens our immigrants are?

March 19, 2026 Posted by | Bureaucracy, Character, ExPat Life, Family Issues, Law and Order, Leadership, Living Conditions, Political Issues, Safety, Work Related Issues | Leave a comment

Rabbit Holes: Paul Samuelson, John Steinbeck and Anu Garg

It’s a rainy day in Pensacola, and Florida needs rain. The reservoirs are depleted, and a drought has been declared. As I go through my e-mail, I come to Anu Garg’s A Word a Day post. (Today’s word is “incubus”). I subscribed to his daily e-mail many years ago as I studied teaching English as an additional language.

Anu Garg is profound. He chooses wonderful words, words my foreign students adored. He also includes a quote at the end of each post. Today’s quote was from John Steinbeck.

A THOUGHT FOR TODAY:
The things we admire in men, kindness and generosity, openness, honesty, understanding and feeling are the concomitants of failure in our system. And those traits we detest, sharpness, greed, acquisitiveness, meanness, egotism and self-interest are the traits of success. And while men admire the quality of the first they love the produce of the second. -John Steinbeck, novelist, Nobel laureate (27 Feb 1902-1968)

And it just so happens that this coming month, my book club is looking at three Steinbeck novels; Tortilla Flats, Cannery Row, and The Moon is Down.

One thing leads to another. Tortilla Flats takes place on a hill above Monterey, California, where paisanos live.

Of all the places I’ve lived, I have never loved a place the way I love Monterey, California. We lived on a hill above Monterey, above the old Del Monte Hotel, now the Naval Postgraduate School. The location sounds very suspiciously a lot like Tortilla Flats. The book bring back so many wonderful memories, particularly lying in bed at night and hearing the sounds of the sea lions barking down on the rocks, the gulls screeching, and the fog horn warning – we had a lot of fog.

And I remember Paul Samuelson, the author of the Economics textbook I used for an introductory economics class I took my freshman year in college. I never intended to like economics, but I found Samuelson readable – and even riveting. I remember one quote from his text: “Man does not always starve quietly” which had to do with his theories on economic development. Within that chapter, he also explains comparative economic deprivation.

This was a long time ago, so I am paraphrasing what I remember, and I might be getting it wrong. Samuelson talked about how once the most basic needs are met in a developing country, food, housing, clothing, jobs – you’d think everybody would be happy, but once people can stop scrabbling to survive, once they are stable, they start looking around and see someone who has more – and this is relative deprivation. The see someone with something they didn’t know they needed, and now they need this, too, to be happy.

So how does this relate to Steinbeck, and La Mesa Village, and Paul Samuelson?

My husband and I and our brand new little baby were leaving one military school and headed for schools in Monterey when he got a call from military housing in Monterey. It was such a nice, positive call when it started out, telling my husband about the lovely house we were to have with three bedrooms and a fireplace in La Mesa Village, and went on to give information about measurements and furniture and we were joyfully amazed. Our military housing had never been so fine, nor had any housing office called us and treated us so respectfully.

And suddenly everything changed. “Oh wait,” she said. “You’re not Navy?”

“No,” replied my husband, “I’m in the Army.”

“You’re not a Navy Captain?” she confirmed.

(silence as we looked in horror at one another)

“No,” my husband said shortly, the way you respond when a short-lived dream-come-true has just died.

“Oh. Well you’ll be in normal student housing then. Sir,” she added, respectfully, but all the pleasantness was gone.

And that’s where my friend Paul Samuelson, the first Economist in the United States to be awarded the Nobel Prize (1970) comes in. How much do you remember from your college classes? As we accepted our student housing – not a beautiful 3 bedroom house with a fireplace, but a flat in a quad with two bedrooms and linoleom floors (no fireplace) I remembered the concept of relative deprivation. I had a roof over my head in Monterey, California, heaven on earth. I had a baby and good child care and great grocery stores; I attended the Naval Postgraduate School and the Defense Language School. On weekends, we hiked at Point Lobos, and we were happy. Happy, except for that occasional twinge of jealousy when we passed the houses higher on the hill with three bedrooms and a fireplace.

And when I felt that twinge, I smiled and thought of Paul Samuelson.

February 27, 2026 Posted by | Adventure, Community, Customer Service, Family Issues, Living Conditions, Marriage, Moving, Quality of Life Issues, Random Musings, Survival | , , , , , , | Leave a comment

From Axios: America’s Healthiest and Least Healthy States

(The United Health Foundation was established by UnitedHealth Group in 1999 as a nonprofit, private foundation dedicated to improving health and health care. To date, the United Health Foundation has committed more than $845 million to programs and communities around the world, including a $100 million commitment to help advance and grow the health care workforce.” (from the United Health Foundation website)

This is one of the non-governmental agencies using facts and statistics to measure outcomes of health practices in the USA. Official statistics are disappearing. Entire years of government studies have been deleted from websites. Fortunately, there are people who saw it coming and who recorded the data from the websites, hoping for a future that respects science, research and statistics, and uses that research to create a greater good for us all, and shares that knowledge and best practices with the world.

January 8, 2026 Posted by | Bureaucracy, Communication, Community, corruption, Family Issues, Health Issues, Interconnected, News, Statistics | | Leave a comment

So Much For Health and Transparency

It started during COVID. Politicians and their Administrations stopped publicizing statistics when the stats revealed their government was doing little or nothing to prevent spread of disease. Now, under the cover of cost reductions and eliminating fraud they are gutting the agencies that maintain the statistics and restricting publications of what few statistics are being gathered. Fortunately, private institutions and individuals are watching, keeping track, and doing their best to keep a vulnerable population informed.

January 7, 2026 Posted by | Aging, Bureaucracy, Circle of Life and Death, Climate Change, Community, corruption, Customer Service, Family Issues, Florida, Free Speech, Health Issues, Living Conditions, Political Issues, Quality of Life Issues, Social Issues, Statistics, Transparency | | Leave a comment

Pensacola New Year’s Sunset over the Bayou

We moved to this house at the beginning of COVID. You wouldn’t think it was a great time to go house hunting or to move, but it worked for us. Almost every day, I thank my husband for moving here (he had said “No more moves!” but COVID made things different.) Almost every day is a sunset – not unlike this one, but no two are identical. Every day. It never fails to thrill my heart. Happy New Year!

January 2, 2026 Posted by | Beauty, Biography, ExPat Life, Family Issues, Florida, Living Conditions, Pensacola, Sunsets | Leave a comment

EUPHROSYNE/SMARAGDUS OF ALEXANDRIA

MONASTIC, 5TH c.

From today’s lectionary, one of my favorite stories of early Saints

Prayer for today: (contemporary language)
Merciful God, who looks not with outward eyes but discerns the heart of each: we confess that those whom we love the most are often strangers to us. Give to all parents and children, we pray, the grace to see one another as they truly are and as you have called them to be. All this we ask in the name of Jesus Christ, our only mediator and advocate. Amen.
  

“Saint Euphrosyne of Alexandria (fl. 5th century CE) was a female saint who adopted male attire and lived at a local monastery as an ascetic. 

Euphrosyne was the beloved only daughter of Paphnutius, a rich man of Alexandria, miraculously born in her parents’ old age in answer to a monk’s prayer. Her loving father desired to marry her to a wealthy youth. 

But having already consecrated her life to God and under pressure to break her vow, she dressed as a man and assumed the identity of “Smaragdus” (“emerald”). She then escaped to a nearby men’s monastery, where she made rapid strides toward a perfected ascetic life. She was under the guidance of the abbot, who also happened to be the same monk who had prayed for her birth. 

Years later, when Paphnutius appealed to the abbot for comfort in his bereavement, the abbot committed him to the care of Euphrosyne, still under the guise of Smaragdus. Paphnutius received from his own daughter, whom he had failed to recognize, helpful advice and comforting exhortation. Not until she was dying did Euphrosyne reveal herself to him as his lost daughter. After burying her, Paphnutius gave up all his worldly goods, and became a monk in the same monastery. There, he used his daughter’s old cell until his own death ten years after. “

from Wikipedia

A dying Euphrosyne reveals herself to her father

As I read today’s lectionary, I am struck by how very blind we are to the realities of God’s creation, that in every tribe and every nation, there are those who are outside the normal boundaries of gender, and who are, at the same time, the people God created them to be. How cruel we are! We judge, and we call names, we cast out – in every tribe and nation in the world – those who are Other, who do not fit into our tiny human conception of “right.” I can imagine the overwhelming revelation as we transcend into the after life.

September 27, 2025 Posted by | Character, Faith, Family Issues, Interconnected, Relationships, Social Issues | , , , | Leave a comment